lifes little lessons

many times in life we find ourselves in certain situations..upon coming out of these situations we often reflect..after reflecting, most of us sometimes make mental notes of what we learned..

the most common thing i think people learn is about what they want..in this, i mean, you learn about things you want to strive for..or even strive to be..

but more recently, i've come to realize that not only is it important to know what you want to be..it's also important to know what you DON'T want to be..

this lesson is much harder to learn than the first..

cuz after all, you see someone do something cool and you're like, 'oh i want to be juss like that'..but how many times can you say, 'oh i definitely don't want to be like that'?

i dunno..

sometimes i feel that we get so caught up in reaching for the top or trying to become someone else that we forget about the little things that actually make us who we are